Relationship Extractor

Purpose

When the Switchboard classifies an incoming message as relationship-relevant,
this skill tells the runtime instance what to look for and how to structure
the extraction so the Relationship butler can act on it immediately.

You are not calling tools yourself. You are producing structured JSON
extractions that the Switchboard will forward to the Relationship butler
via route().

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Signal Taxonomy

Every incoming message may contain zero or more of these 8 signal types.
Extract all signals present — a single message can produce multiple
extractions.

#	Signal Type	What to Look For
1	contact	A new person mentioned by name, with optional details (email, phone, role, company, location)
2	interaction	Evidence of a past or planned meeting, call, text, email, or social encounter with a named person
3	life_event	Milestone or change: new job, move, engagement, graduation, illness, retirement, promotion, baby
4	date	Birthday, anniversary, wedding date, or any recurring calendar date tied to a person
5	fact	A discrete piece of personal information: favorite food, allergy, hobby, pet name, preference
6	sentiment	Emotional context about a relationship: "I'm worried about Sarah", "Alex and I had a great time"
7	gift	Gift idea, purchase, or giving event tied to a person and optionally an occasion
8	loan	Money lent or borrowed, with amount, direction, and optional description

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Output Schema

For each signal detected, produce one JSON object following the schema for
that signal type. Return an array of all extractions.

Envelope Format

{
  "extractions": [
    {
      "signal_type": "<one of the 8 types>",
      "confidence": "HIGH" | "MEDIUM" | "LOW",
      "contact_hint": "<name of the person this relates to>",
      "data": { ... },
      "tool_mapping": {
        "tool": "<Relationship butler tool name>",
        "args": { ... }
      }
    }
  ]
}

Fields:

• signal_type — One of: contact, interaction, life_event, date,
  fact, sentiment, gift, loan.
• confidence — See the Confidence Scoring Rubric below.
• contact_hint — The person's name as mentioned in the message. Used for
  deduplication lookup before creating/updating records.
• data — The raw extracted data (human-readable, preserves original phrasing).
• tool_mapping — The exact Relationship butler tool to call and its arguments.
  The contact_id field should be set to null — the Switchboard will resolve
  it via contact_search before routing.

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Per-Type Schemas

1. contact

Detected when a new person is introduced or details about a person are shared
for the first time.

{
  "signal_type": "contact",
  "confidence": "HIGH",
  "contact_hint": "Sarah Chen",
  "data": {
    "name": "Sarah Chen",
    "details": {
      "email": "sarah@example.com",
      "phone": null,
      "company": "Acme Corp",
      "role": "engineering manager",
      "location": "San Francisco",
      "notes": "Met at the conference last week"
    }
  },
  "tool_mapping": {
    "tool": "contact_create",
    "args": {
      "name": "Sarah Chen",
      "details": {
        "email": "sarah@example.com",
        "company": "Acme Corp",
        "role": "engineering manager",
        "location": "San Francisco",
        "notes": "Met at the conference last week"
      }
    }
  }
}

Tool signature: contact_create(pool, name: str, details: dict | None = None) -> dict

If the contact already exists (resolved via contact_search), use
contact_update instead to merge new details.

Update tool signature: contact_update(pool, contact_id: UUID, **fields) -> dict

• Accepts name and details keyword arguments.

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2. interaction

Detected when someone describes a past or upcoming meeting, call, or social
encounter with a named person.

{
  "signal_type": "interaction",
  "confidence": "HIGH",
  "contact_hint": "Jake",
  "data": {
    "type": "coffee",
    "summary": "Had coffee with Jake downtown, discussed his startup idea",
    "occurred_at": "2026-02-08T15:00:00Z"
  },
  "tool_mapping": {
    "tool": "interaction_log",
    "args": {
      "contact_id": null,
      "type": "coffee",
      "summary": "Had coffee with Jake downtown, discussed his startup idea",
      "occurred_at": "2026-02-08T15:00:00Z"
    }
  }
}

Tool signature (MCP): interaction_log(contact_id: UUID, type: str, summary: str | None = None, occurred_at: datetime | None = None) -> dict

The MCP tool accepts contact_id and resolves it to the entity's entity_id internally. Facts are stored under subject='entity:{entity_id}' in the facts table.

Common interaction types: call, text, email, coffee, lunch,
dinner, meeting, video_call, party, visit.

If the date/time is not mentioned, omit occurred_at (defaults to now).

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3. life_event

Detected when a significant life change is mentioned for a person: new job,
move, engagement, baby, graduation, retirement, illness, promotion, etc.

Life events produce two extractions: a note (to record the event) and
optionally a date (if a specific date is mentioned).

{
  "signal_type": "life_event",
  "confidence": "HIGH",
  "contact_hint": "Maria",
  "data": {
    "event": "promotion",
    "description": "Maria got promoted to VP of Engineering at her company"
  },
  "tool_mapping": {
    "tool": "note_create",
    "args": {
      "contact_id": null,
      "content": "Life event: Maria got promoted to VP of Engineering at her company",
      "emotion": "happy"
    }
  }
}

Tool signature: note_create(pool, contact_id: UUID, content: str, emotion: str | None = None) -> dict

Emotion values to use for life events: happy, proud, excited,
concerned, sad, neutral.

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4. date

Detected when a birthday, anniversary, wedding date, or any recurring
calendar date is mentioned in connection with a person.

{
  "signal_type": "date",
  "confidence": "HIGH",
  "contact_hint": "Dad",
  "data": {
    "label": "birthday",
    "month": 3,
    "day": 15,
    "year": 1965
  },
  "tool_mapping": {
    "tool": "date_add",
    "args": {
      "contact_id": null,
      "label": "birthday",
      "month": 3,
      "day": 15,
      "year": 1965
    }
  }
}

Tool signature: date_add(pool, contact_id: UUID, label: str, month: int, day: int, year: int | None = None) -> dict

Common labels: birthday, anniversary, wedding, graduation,
memorial, name_day.

If only month and day are mentioned, set year to null.

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5. fact

Detected when a discrete, specific piece of personal information is shared
about someone: favorite food, allergy, hobby, pet's name, clothing size,
preference, etc.

{
  "signal_type": "fact",
  "confidence": "MEDIUM",
  "contact_hint": "Tom",
  "data": {
    "key": "favorite_cuisine",
    "value": "Thai food"
  },
  "tool_mapping": {
    "tool": "fact_set",
    "args": {
      "contact_id": null,
      "key": "favorite_cuisine",
      "value": "Thai food"
    }
  }
}

Tool signature: fact_set(pool, contact_id: UUID, key: str, value: str) -> dict

Use snake_case keys. Common keys: favorite_food, favorite_cuisine,
favorite_color, favorite_drink, allergy, dietary_restriction,
hobby, pet_name, pet_type, clothing_size, shoe_size,
coffee_order, sports_team, music_taste, preferred_language,
nickname, employer, job_title.

Facts are UPSERTed — setting the same key again overwrites the previous value.

---

6. sentiment

Detected when the message conveys emotional context about a relationship or
person. This captures the user's feelings, not the contact's.

{
  "signal_type": "sentiment",
  "confidence": "MEDIUM",
  "contact_hint": "Sarah",
  "data": {
    "emotion": "worried",
    "context": "Haven't heard from Sarah in weeks, hope she's doing okay"
  },
  "tool_mapping": {
    "tool": "note_create",
    "args": {
      "contact_id": null,
      "content": "Sentiment: Haven't heard from Sarah in weeks, hope she's doing okay",
      "emotion": "worried"
    }
  }
}

Tool signature: note_create(pool, contact_id: UUID, content: str, emotion: str | None = None) -> dict

Emotion values for sentiments: happy, grateful, excited, proud,
nostalgic, worried, frustrated, sad, guilty, neutral.

Sentiments are stored as notes with an emotion tag. Prefix the content with
"Sentiment: " to distinguish from regular notes.

---

7. gift

Detected when a gift idea, purchase, or giving event is mentioned in
connection with a person.

{
  "signal_type": "gift",
  "confidence": "HIGH",
  "contact_hint": "Mom",
  "data": {
    "description": "Silk scarf from that boutique she liked",
    "occasion": "birthday"
  },
  "tool_mapping": {
    "tool": "gift_add",
    "args": {
      "contact_id": null,
      "description": "Silk scarf from that boutique she liked",
      "occasion": "birthday"
    }
  }
}

Tool signature: gift_add(pool, contact_id: UUID, description: str, occasion: str | None = None) -> dict

If the gift has already been purchased or given, produce an additional
extraction using gift_update_status (requires the gift ID, which the
Switchboard resolves after creation):

Status tool signature: gift_update_status(pool, gift_id: UUID, status: str) -> dict

Gift pipeline statuses: idea -> purchased -> wrapped -> given -> thanked.

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8. loan

Detected when money lent or borrowed is mentioned between the user and a
named person.

{
  "signal_type": "loan",
  "confidence": "HIGH",
  "contact_hint": "Alex",
  "data": {
    "amount": "50.00",
    "direction": "lent",
    "description": "Covered Alex's lunch at the Italian place"
  },
  "tool_mapping": {
    "tool": "loan_create",
    "args": {
      "contact_id": null,
      "amount": "50.00",
      "direction": "lent",
      "description": "Covered Alex's lunch at the Italian place"
    }
  }
}

Tool signature: loan_create(pool, contact_id: UUID, amount: Decimal, direction: str, description: str | None = None) -> dict

Direction is always from the user's perspective:

• "lent" — user gave money to the contact
• "borrowed" — user received money from the contact

Amount should be a decimal string (e.g., "50.00", "1200.50").

If the message mentions repayment/settling, use loan_settle instead:

Settle tool signature: loan_settle(pool, loan_id: UUID) -> dict

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Confidence Scoring Rubric

Assign a confidence level to each extraction based on how clearly the signal
is stated in the message.

HIGH — Direct, explicit statement

The message explicitly states the information with no ambiguity.

Signal	Example message	Why HIGH
contact	"I met Sarah Chen, she's an engineering manager at Acme Corp"	Name, role, and company all stated directly
interaction	"I had lunch with Jake yesterday"	Explicit interaction type, named person, time reference
date	"Mom's birthday is March 15th"	Named person, label, and exact date all stated
loan	"I lent Alex $50 for lunch"	Amount, direction, person, and context all explicit
gift	"I'm thinking of getting Mom a silk scarf for her birthday"	Item, person, and occasion all stated

MEDIUM — Implied or partially stated

The information is strongly implied but requires minor inference.

Signal	Example message	Why MEDIUM
fact	"Jake always orders the pad thai"	Implies favorite dish, but "always" is an inference
sentiment	"I should really call Sarah back"	Implies guilt/concern, but no explicit emotion stated
life_event	"Did you hear about Maria's new title?"	Implies promotion but details are vague
interaction	"I ran into Tom at the store"	Casual encounter — unclear if meaningful interaction

LOW — Weak signal, speculative

The information requires significant inference or is mentioned in passing
with little context.

Signal	Example message	Why LOW
contact	"Some guy named Dave was at the party"	Minimal information, may not be worth tracking
fact	"I think Tom mentioned he likes hiking"	Secondhand, uncertain
sentiment	"Whatever, it's fine" (about a person)	Extremely vague emotional signal
date	"I think her birthday is sometime in March"	No specific day

Rules

1. When in doubt, go MEDIUM. Only use LOW for truly speculative signals.
2. Multiple signals reinforce each other. If the same message mentions
   "had coffee with Jake" (interaction) and "he told me about his new job"
   (life event), both can be HIGH because the interaction context is clear.
3. Never suppress LOW extractions. Include them — the Switchboard can
   decide whether to act on LOW-confidence signals based on butler policy.
4. Confidence is about signal clarity, not importance. A LOW-confidence
   birthday is still important — it just means we are unsure about the data.

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Third-Party Sender Attribution

Not every message originates from the owner. When the [Source: ...] preamble
identifies a non-owner contact as the sender, signals extracted from the
message must be attributed to the correct person:

Scenario	contact_hint should be
Sender shares their own interest/preference	The sender's name (from preamble)
Sender mentions a third person's info	The third person's name
Sender recommends something to the owner	The sender's name (it reveals their taste, not the owner's)

Never attribute a non-owner sender's preferences to the owner. The owner
is the recipient, not the subject of the fact.

Example — Third-Party Sender

Source preamble: [Source: Chloe Wong (contact_id: <uuid>, entity_id: <uuid>), via telegram]

Message: "https://reddit.com/r/SingaporeEats/... Good list of places to eat at :P"

Expected extraction:

{
  "extractions": [
    {
      "signal_type": "fact",
      "confidence": "MEDIUM",
      "contact_hint": "Chloe Wong",
      "data": {
        "key": "interest",
        "value": "food and restaurant recommendation lists; SingaporeEats-style roundups"
      },
      "tool_mapping": {
        "tool": "fact_set",
        "args": {
          "contact_id": null,
          "key": "interest",
          "value": "food and restaurant recommendation lists; SingaporeEats-style roundups"
        }
      }
    }
  ]
}

Wrong: "contact_hint": "Owner" — Chloe shared the link; the interest is hers.

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Deduplication Hints

Before creating a new contact or adding data, the Switchboard should search
for existing contacts to avoid duplicates. The contact_hint field is the
primary key for this lookup.

Name Matching Rules

1. Exact match first. Search for the name exactly as stated.
2. Case-insensitive. "sarah" matches "Sarah".
3. First name only. If the message says "Sarah" and there is exactly one
   contact named "Sarah Chen", treat it as a match.
4. Nicknames and diminutives. Common mappings to watch for:
   • Mom/Dad/Mama/Papa → search by relationship label or known parent names
   • Common diminutives: Tom/Thomas, Jake/Jacob, Mike/Michael, Liz/Elizabeth,
     Alex/Alexander/Alexandra, Sam/Samuel/Samantha, Dan/Daniel, Ben/Benjamin,
     Bob/Robert, Bill/William, Kate/Katherine, Jenny/Jennifer, Tony/Anthony
5. Ambiguous match. If contact_search returns multiple results for a
   first-name-only query, set confidence to MEDIUM and include all candidate
   names in a "candidates" field:

   {
     "contact_hint": "Sarah",
     "candidates": ["Sarah Chen", "Sarah Miller"],
     "confidence": "MEDIUM"
   }

6. No match. If no contact is found, the extraction proceeds as a new
   contact creation (the contact signal type) combined with whatever other
   signal was detected.

Merge Strategy

When an existing contact is found:

• contact signal → Use contact_update to merge new details into
  the existing contact's details JSONB. Do not overwrite existing values
  unless the new information is clearly a correction.
• All other signals → Use the resolved contact_id and proceed with
  the mapped tool.

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Multi-Signal Extraction Example

Input message:

"Had dinner with Jake last night. His birthday is April 22nd. He mentioned
he's allergic to shellfish. I still owe him $30 from last week. Maybe I
should get him a nice bottle of whiskey for his birthday."

Expected output:

{
  "extractions": [
    {
      "signal_type": "interaction",
      "confidence": "HIGH",
      "contact_hint": "Jake",
      "data": {
        "type": "dinner",
        "summary": "Had dinner with Jake last night",
        "occurred_at": "2026-02-08T19:00:00Z"
      },
      "tool_mapping": {
        "tool": "interaction_log",
        "args": {
          "contact_id": null,
          "type": "dinner",
          "summary": "Had dinner with Jake last night",
          "occurred_at": "2026-02-08T19:00:00Z"
        }
      }
    },
    {
      "signal_type": "date",
      "confidence": "HIGH",
      "contact_hint": "Jake",
      "data": {
        "label": "birthday",
        "month": 4,
        "day": 22,
        "year": null
      },
      "tool_mapping": {
        "tool": "date_add",
        "args": {
          "contact_id": null,
          "label": "birthday",
          "month": 4,
          "day": 22,
          "year": null
        }
      }
    },
    {
      "signal_type": "fact",
      "confidence": "HIGH",
      "contact_hint": "Jake",
      "data": {
        "key": "allergy",
        "value": "shellfish"
      },
      "tool_mapping": {
        "tool": "fact_set",
        "args": {
          "contact_id": null,
          "key": "allergy",
          "value": "shellfish"
        }
      }
    },
    {
      "signal_type": "loan",
      "confidence": "HIGH",
      "contact_hint": "Jake",
      "data": {
        "amount": "30.00",
        "direction": "borrowed",
        "description": "Owed from last week"
      },
      "tool_mapping": {
        "tool": "loan_create",
        "args": {
          "contact_id": null,
          "amount": "30.00",
          "direction": "borrowed",
          "description": "Owed from last week"
        }
      }
    },
    {
      "signal_type": "gift",
      "confidence": "MEDIUM",
      "contact_hint": "Jake",
      "data": {
        "description": "A nice bottle of whiskey",
        "occasion": "birthday"
      },
      "tool_mapping": {
        "tool": "gift_add",
        "args": {
          "contact_id": null,
          "description": "A nice bottle of whiskey",
          "occasion": "birthday"
        }
      }
    }
  ]
}

Note: The gift extraction is MEDIUM confidence because "maybe I should get"
is tentative, not a definite plan.

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Tool Signature Reference

Complete mapping of Relationship butler tools used by this skill:

Tool	Signature	Used For
contact_create	(pool, name: str, details: dict | None)	New contact
contact_update	(pool, contact_id: UUID, **fields)	Merge details into existing contact
contact_search	(pool, query: str)	Deduplication lookup
interaction_log	(contact_id: UUID, type: str, summary: str | None, occurred_at: datetime | None)	Log interactions (contact_id resolved to entity_id internally)
note_create	(pool, contact_id: UUID, content: str, emotion: str | None)	Life events and sentiments
date_add	(pool, contact_id: UUID, label: str, month: int, day: int, year: int | None)	Important dates
fact_set	(pool, contact_id: UUID, key: str, value: str)	Quick facts
gift_add	(pool, contact_id: UUID, description: str, occasion: str | None)	Gift ideas
gift_update_status	(pool, gift_id: UUID, status: str)	Gift pipeline progression
loan_create	(pool, contact_id: UUID, amount: Decimal, direction: str, description: str | None)	New loans
loan_settle	(pool, loan_id: UUID)	Settle existing loans